Break the cycle of negative thoughts. Step by step, from the safety of your home

Inspiring stories on the most common topics from a psychotherapy practice.

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Vanda Procházka

Profesionálka v oblasti hudby

The book That Pain Is Not You offers a sensitive, highly professional, and at the same time very accessible insight into topics that touch most of us in some way. I particularly appreciated its ability to connect therapeutic insights with a deeper human and existential dimension without unnecessary complexity or sensationalism. It is a book that can help readers better understand their own experiences, inner wounds, and the patterns we often carry without being fully aware of them. At the same time, it comes across as human, kind, and supportive.

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Zuzana Frydrychovská

Psycholožka

I greatly appreciate my colleague’s work; the book is clear, engaging, uncluttered, easy to read, inspiring, encouraging, non-judgmental, and professionally sound. The market has truly been lacking a book of this kind. The combination of real-life stories, professional grounding, and the subsequent suggestions on “what to do about it” makes the book truly important and appealing to the general public—simply to all of us. I highly recommend it!

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Petr Vítek

Majitel stavební firmy

My wife gave me this book as a gift, out of love, and with the suggestion that I might learn something about myself and my reactions. Even though this is my first psychology book, I was really captivated by the stories of these ordinary people. Suddenly, I feel like I understand what the psychologist is writing about a little better. Thank you for this easy-to-understand book, even for us ordinary guys.

Do any of these situations sound familiar to you?

I wrote this book for people who feel they can no longer cope with their suffering, but for whom stepping into a doctor’s office is still a prospect that inspires both respect and fear of the unknown. This book is for you if:

Something is missing in my relationship with my parents

You love your parents, but you still feel a sense of distance, pain, or an emptiness that you can’t quite put your finger on.

We didn't talk about those things at home

There were certain topics that were avoided in your family. Secrets, taboos, or tensions that you may still carry with you today.

You're overwhelmed by your emotions

Anxiety, fear, or unpleasant feelings return even when you’re doing your very best to cope with them.

Someone has hurt you

Maybe just this once, maybe for the long term. But what matters is how to move forward and feel safe again.

Addiction has taken over your life

You may have encountered drinking, drug use, gambling, or other behaviors in your life that have affected both you and your relationships.

I wrote this book in collaboration with the very best

MUDr. Radkin Honzák, CSc.

A legend in Czech psychiatry and a man who has spent his entire life teaching Czechs to talk about mental health in a clear and non-stigmatizing way. Radkin Honzák contributed to professional supervision and the foreword of this book.

His collaboration is your guarantee that the approaches I describe in the book are not only practical and humane, but also professionally sound and safe.

Why I Wrote This Book

I am a psychotherapist with many years of experience. In my practice, I see every day just how much courage it takes to ask for help. Furthermore, research shows that a large proportion of people with mental health issues do not seek treatment at all—often precisely because of these barriers and the stigma associated with mental illness.

The main purpose of this book is to make psychotherapy more accessible and offer readers a glimpse into real psychotherapy sessions. In addition to a specific story, each chapter includes a brief theoretical overview of the topic and, above all, concrete advice and tips for readers dealing with similar issues.

Tereza Ševčíková

I wrote this book in collaboration with the very best

MUDr. Radkin Honzák, CSc.

A legend in Czech psychiatry and a man who has spent his entire life teaching Czechs to talk about mental health in a clear and non-stigmatizing way. Radkin Honzák contributed to professional supervision and the foreword of this book.

His collaboration is your guarantee that the approaches I describe in the book are not only practical and humane, but also professionally sound and safe.

Why I Wrote This Book

I am a psychotherapist with many years of experience. In my practice, I see every day just how much courage it takes to ask for help. Furthermore, research shows that a large proportion of people with mental health issues do not seek treatment at all—often precisely because of these barriers and the stigma associated with mental illness.

The main purpose of this book is to make psychotherapy more accessible and offer readers a glimpse into real psychotherapy sessions. In addition to a specific story, each chapter includes a brief theoretical overview of the topic and, above all, concrete advice and tips for readers dealing with similar issues.

Tereza Ševčíková

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FAQ About the Book

Who is the book “You Are Not the Pain” for?

This is a practical book for ordinary people who aren’t afraid to take on life’s challenges as they come. They ask themselves questions and sometimes feel at a loss, but they don’t give up and want to live a dignified and beautiful life.

Is the book based on the author’s personal story?

The book is quite personal in places, as it also describes the author’s own journey through psychotherapy. However, the book is not a personal account of the author’s life, but rather a collection of six topics, six clients’ stories, and practical advice and tips on these specific topics

Can the book help me even if I’m not in a serious life crisis?

Absolutely. All it takes is a bit of curiosity and a desire to understand yourself better or simply broaden your horizons.

So what are the main themes of the book?

Certain themes recur frequently in the author’s work, and these are included here. They include: emotional neglect in childhood, secrets, taboos, and family relationships; unmanageable emotions—anger and anxiety; parental alcoholism, which continues to affect children even into adulthood; and childhood sexual abuse.

Where can I order the book?

The book was published by Práh, but you can buy it at all your favorite bookstores